Appointing a children’s guardian in a family dispute

Parents will sometimes appoint a legal guardian for a child, for example when making a will or if a child has special needs, but it can come as a surprise to parents if a judge orders the appointment of a children’s guardian during Family Court proceedings. When parents separate, the focus of family law proceedings naturally shifts to the welfare of their children, and sometimes an independent professional is necessary to ensure the child’s wishes and feelings will be heard.

While parents are encouraged to reach agreements that are in their children’s best interests, there are often circumstances where an independent voice is needed to represent their child’s perspective directly to the court,’ explains Trevor Gay, head of the family team with [Firm name]. ‘This can happen in a dispute when you are at loggerheads and the court thinks your child needs their own voice and separate legal representation.’

Why would the court appoint a guardian for my child?

The court has discretion to appoint a children’s guardian during a court case, in a variety of situations. It is most common for one to be appointed in care cases, where the council has made applications to safeguard a child from potential risk of harm posed by their parents.

Outside of this, a guardian will sometimes be considered in cases concerning child arrangements to decide who your child will live with and how much time they will spend with their other parent.

You may find yourself in an unfortunate position where there are high levels of conflict with the other parent, due to factors such as domestic abuse during your relationship or personal differences which have led to a complete breakdown in trust. If such problems filter through into the court case about your child, it can very easily obstruct progress being made and can take away from the focus of the case, which is your child’s best interests.

The most common scenario of when a children’s guardian might be appointed by the court, is where one parent says their child definitely does not want to see the other parent, while that parent says their child definitely does want to see them and it is their other parent forcing their views on the child. It would be very clear to the court that the child needs an independent voice in the proceedings, so that their true wishes and feelings can be heard.

Who is a children’s guardian?

A children’s guardian is an independent professional appointed by the court in family law proceedings where there are significant welfare concerns for a child. They are not representing either parent, nor are they simply an advocate for your child’s wishes (though they do take these into account). Instead, their primary duty is to represent your child’s best interests during the case, independent from what you or their other parent might think is best.

A guardian will normally be a social worker from the Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (CAFCASS), an organisation that advises the family courts in cases involving children.

When are they appointed?

When it is obvious that there is a particular complexity in the case, such as very high levels of conflict between you and the other parent, or your child is potentially at risk of harm, a children’s guardian may be appointed at the first court hearing. Otherwise, it may not be until a second or third hearing that the complexities become clear, which is when a guardian may be appointed. Once the order is made for a children’s guardian, you will be notified in writing who it will be and when they will make contact with you and your child.

What does the guardian do?

Typically, the children’s guardian will arrange to spend time with your child and carry out targeted work with them, to help build trust and elicit your child’s true wishes and feelings. They will also speak to both you and the other parent about your concerns and what you want for your child.

The court will ask the guardian to prepare a full report on the situation, giving recommendations as to what they think is in your child’s best interests. Sometimes, the court will ask for interim shorter reports so that both parents are kept up to date with the progress of the work, especially in cases which span several months, or even years.

What does this mean for my child … will they have their own solicitor?

In essence, yes, because your child will be a separate party to the case and so, will require their own legal representation. When the children’s guardian is appointed, they will secure legal representation and work closely with the solicitor for your child. It will be the guardian that provides instructions to your child’s solicitor, based on what they gather from your child during the work they do with them. The solicitor may represent your child at court hearings themselves, or instruct a barrister to do so. There is no additional cost to either parent, as CAFCASS will meet these under legal aid.

If you have your own solicitor, they will liaise with your child’s solicitor on the legal issues, but it is common for the guardian to contact you directly.

What if I disagree with the children’s guardian?

Firstly, it is quite normal for one parent to hold a different view from that of the children’s guardian about what is best for their child. Sometimes both parents will disagree with certain elements of the recommendations.

If you find yourself in that position, it is important to voice your concerns to your legal team at the earliest opportunity, and not wait until the guardian has provided their final report. This allows time for further work to be done with your child, or to seek other experts to come on board and assess the situation.

Should it be the case that, even after voicing your disagreement and asking for more work to be done with your child, the guardian maintains their views, you can challenge their findings at a final hearing. The court would ask you to provide a statement and evidence supporting your case and a judge would then hear all of the relevant evidence before taking a decision.

How we can help

Having a children’s guardian appointed in your case immediately increases the complexity involved. Whether you are already in the midst of a court case but are struggling to understand the role of the guardian, or you think a children’s guardian will soon be appointed for your child, it is of utmost importance that you have specialist legal advice on what it means for you and your child.

For further information, please contact Trevor Gay in the family law team on 0191 297 0011 or email whitley.bay@kiddspoorlaw.com.

This article is for general information only and does not constitute legal or professional advice. Please note that the law may have changed since this article was published.

Cohabitation reform and the digital age

Cohabitation Reform and the Digital Age: Legal Realities for Modern Families

Why Seeking Expert Legal Advice Has Never Been More Important

At Kidd and Spoor Solicitors, we recognise that modern family life doesn’t always follow traditional paths. Whether you are living together, raising children outside of marriage, or facing separation, the law can be complex—and often unfair. Our experienced Family Law team is here to help you protect your rights and plan for the future with clear, practical advice tailored to your circumstances.

Cohabitation Reform: Long Overdue

The discussion surrounding cohabitation reform has long remained a legal debate, yet it has failed to become a political priority. The current legal framework for cohabiting couples in England and Wales is outdated, unclear, and frequently leads to unjust outcomes. It relies heavily on contract law and complex trust principles, which can leave many people—particularly those who have taken on greater domestic and childcare responsibilities—without adequate protection.

A Mismatch with Modern Relationships

Cohabiting families represent the fastest-growing family type in the UK. By 2031, it is projected that one in four couples will be cohabiting rather than married. Despite this trend, a persistent myth remains: the belief in ‘common law marriage’. Many couples assume they enjoy the same legal rights as married couples, often referring to themselves as ‘common law husband and wife’. Unfortunately, no such legal status exists in England and Wales. This misconception frequently leads to a false sense of security, leaving individuals vulnerable when relationships break down.

Learning from Other Jurisdictions

Other countries offer more progressive legal frameworks. In New Zealand and Australia, courts consider factors such as the length of the relationship and whether the couple has children, resulting in fairer outcomes for cohabiting partners. Scotland also provides greater legal recognition, allowing courts to assess claims between cohabitants without requiring them to have been together for a minimum period. England and Wales, however, remain out of step with these more equitable systems.

Addressing the Marriage Myth

As marriage rates decline and societal attitudes continue to evolve, more couples are choosing to cohabit rather than marry. The law needs to reflect this reality and ensure cohabiting couples have access to legal protections, regardless of marital status.

Reform is urgently required to bring the law in line with the way people are living their lives today.

What You Can Do Now: Cohabitation Agreements

While we await legislative reform, cohabiting couples can take proactive steps to protect themselves. A Cohabitation Agreement allows couples to outline their financial arrangements and responsibilities in the event of separation. Such agreements can cover property ownership, financial support, and childcare arrangements, providing peace of mind and reducing the potential for disputes.

At Kidd and Spoor, we can assist you in drafting a Cohabitation Agreement tailored to your specific needs, ensuring clarity and security for both parties.

Social Media and Family Law: Think Before You Post

Social media plays an ever-increasing role in family law proceedings. Posts, messages, and photographs shared online are frequently used as evidence in cases concerning children, finances, and injunctions. What you share on social media can, whether intentionally or not, have a significant impact on your case.

How Social Media Is Used in Family Law

  • Child Arrangements: Social media posts can demonstrate communication between parents—or a lack of it—and may provide evidence of risks to children or inappropriate behaviour.
  • Financial Matters: Photographs and posts showing holidays, large purchases, or an affluent lifestyle can be used to challenge claims of financial hardship or to reveal undeclared assets.
  • Injunctions for Harassment: Online behaviour can form evidence in cases involving harassment or abuse. Sharing explicit images or posting threatening comments may lead to legal action and court proceedings.

For example, in one case, a father claimed he was available for contact with his children, yet social media posts clearly showed he was out of the country. The court took this evidence into account when making its decision.

A Simple Rule to Follow

If it’s online, it can be used in court. As the saying goes:
“Dance like no one is watching, but post like it’s going to be read by a Judge.”

How Kidd and Spoor Can Help You

At Kidd and Spoor, we take pride in offering clear, practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of family law. Whether you are cohabiting, separating, or involved in court proceedings, our dedicated Family Law team can:

  • Draft a Cohabitation Agreement tailored to your needs
  • Advise you on your legal rights if your relationship breaks down
  • Represent you in child arrangements, financial claims, and divorce proceedings
  • Guide you on best practices for social media use during family law disputes
  • Support you through injunctions for harassment or domestic abuse

If you are living with your partner and wish to protect your future, or if you are concerned about how social media may affect your family law case, contact Kidd & Spoor today. Our friendly and knowledgeable team is here to help you safeguard what matters most.

📞 Call us on (0191) 2970011
🌐 Visit our website at https://kiddspoorlaw.co.uk/

Meet the Family Team

Kennedy is an integral member of the Family team at Kidd and Spoor. She completed a Master’s Integrated Law Degree, achieving a 2:1, followed by a Distinction on the Bar Course. She was called to the Bar of England and Wales in October 2022 and is currently training to qualify as a solicitor.

Kennedy joined Kidd and Spoor in October 2022 as a paralegal in the fast-paced Family Law department, where she has become a valued member of both the team and the firm. She has experience assisting in various aspects of family law, including Divorce, Financial Remedy, and Private Children Act matters.

In January 2024, Kennedy enrolled in the apprenticeship programme provided by BPP University, enabling her to sit the Solicitors Qualifying Exams and specialise in family law upon qualification.

Outside of work, Kennedy loves to travel and hopes to explore as many new countries as possible—her favourite destination so far being Thailand, which she visited in 2018 and 2022, exploring different islands. She also enjoys spending time with her four Labradors, all of whom compete in Working Test Competitions.

Trevor is a qualified solicitor with over 20 years of post qualification experience. He has dealt exclusively with family matters for over 15 years.

His role encompasses all aspects of family law including divorce, separation and preparing pre-nuptial and post nuptial agreements. Trevor has a particular interest and focus on financial settlements arising from relationship breakdowns. His approach is to try and reach amicable agreements and binding settlements whilst minimising the animosity and stress which inevitably come with the situation.

Trevor has significant experience advising and representing parents and other extended family members in disputes regarding where the children live and contact arrangements.

He often deals with urgent matters which can require an immediate court application to protect a child or other vulnerable person, in cases where a child or adult have suffered or are at risk of suffering harm.

Trevor conducts his own advocacy at court wherever possible, which allows him to provide consistent and specialist representation to clients throughout their case.